I am sorry you lost a dear member of the family. E-mail is not the best way
to express feelings but you have even through you analysis of
internalization/externalization.
One of the most difficult things about the death of someone close and dear
is that they are still present in your internal way of relating to them.
You just cannot relate to them externally any more. But they are so alive
internally. I still talk to my mother and my father after more than ten and
fifteen years since they have passed away.
I just wanted you to know that you can never loose someone you love. It is
just the change of the mode.
Ana
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