Bill,
You said:
My change was brought about by
>aiming my activity at a bottle of wine, while you were aiming your activity
>at the same bottle of wine. Aiming acitivity at the same object cause
>problem.
But form your example, I would say that you aimed your activity NOT toward
the bottle of wine but toward repairing your relationship with Don while he
may have really aimed his activity at the bottle of wine. Your example is
more about the change of the orientation for yo,u then about the same
object - the same bottle of wine
:-)
Ana
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